I made a little freesite featuring pegging content: Bending Over For Her. I want to get a bit of traffic to my new AVS site Pegging Porn and this will help. To do that I went around submitting the site to porn linklists and invariably I had to categorize it as “femdom” (female domination/fetish) content.

That’s the thing with the porn industry, it loves to come up with categories for things. And when content doesn’t easily slot into one category or another it can reveal just how arbitary, sexist and racist some categorisations are. Interracial, anyone?

Is pegging always “femdom”? It’s an interesting question. I’m inclined to say no, because pegging as defined by Dan Savage is a consensual activity that should involve pleasuring the man. At the same time, strap-on anal sex is a well-worn tool of the dominatrix and is standard fare for female-domination fetish porn.

Perusing various male-female strap-on sites, I was interested to see how many focused on the apparent pain and humiliation of being pegged. For a lot of pornographers, receiving anal sex is about being “the bitch” and all anal must be painful. A shame, I think.

But can pegging be sexy without the power element? For many men, the appeal of straight strap-on sex is the turning of tables, the giving up of control - being “fucked” instead of being “the fucker.” Surely in that situation it means there is some female domination involved?

I made Pegging Porn without that focus on fetishized femdom. It’s just got normal-looking couples (some of them real-life couples) engaging in some fun anal play with a strap-on dildo. I suspect that makes it quite a rare porn site.

You’ll find more pegging porn sites in the Quirky Sex Pegging Section.

Posted by quirky in Quirky Sex, Ramblings